The business of coaching is growing rapidly and there are a mass of people out there calling themselves coaches. It can be very confusing for someone looking for a coach to find the right one for them.
A quick search will find lots of different titles: life coach, business coach, executive coach, personal coach, career coach, health coach, conflict coach, dating coach, sports coach victimisation coach, leadership coach, performance coach, and so on. These people vary from the totally unqualified to the highly professional; and from one-man-bands, through to companies employing dozens of coaches, up to international franchise operations.
How do you pick a good coach, who is right for you? What can you look out for to help you select a coach who understands you and can help you to move forward?
What characteristics make a good coach?
In the pages that follow, you will find five important questions that you can pose to any prospective coach to ensure that you get the results that you want and that your investment gives you a good return.
This paper focuses on leadership coaching. A leadership coach aims to maximise the performance of leaders, or aspiring leaders, as individuals and as groups. Leaders may be business owners, directors, senior managers or more junior managers who are moving up the ladder. The common feature is the need to address the challenges they face as business leaders and the need to solve business challenges and see bottom line improvements through personal or team performance improvements. The issues that come up are complex and the individual challenges may be significant, therefore the choice of leadership coach is critical.
1. How will you work with my company and my team?
The first point to consider is whether the coach will fit in with you and your business. There has to be a ‘fit’ with the personality, style and background of the coach and the culture of the business and the personality of the team that is being coached.
This fit does not need to be too cosy. Coaching will be challenging and there are times when coaches need to be stretched or confronted with uncomfortable truths. Therefore it may be better to think of ‘fit’ as being one more of mutual respect and understanding.
Therefore ask the question, listen to the answer and hear what your gut instinct, or inner voice, says. If you sense that the coach will fit in, engender respect and has the edge to work firmly but sensitively and empathetically with your most difficult team member, then you are off to a good start.
2. What is your background and how does it apply to my business?
These are key questions to ask – especially the applicability of the coach’s background. The challenge though is in deciding just what the right answer is.
A good coach will intelligently employ a process to help a client get through to the right results for them and their particular challenge. This means that in some senses, any good coach, regardless Nda Coaching Institute in Dehradun of background, can coach any client through any issue. There certainly are some life coaches and personal coaches out there that will say this. However, in the more specialist forms of coaching, coaches will bring an extensive amount of experience and training to bear that they can employ in a pure coaching process, or design a more nuanced process which blends training, mentoring and coaching to better meet the clients’ particular needs. In this way you can create an enormously powerful process which not only connects a coachee with new insights and powerful goals, but equips them with new tools, knowledge and mindsets in a way that a generalist could never hope to achieve.
You will thus need to listen to your prospective coach’s answers and see how the whole package might meet your needs and what synergies exist. However, don’t look at experience too rigidly. Your coach does not need to have done the coachees’ job before nor do they need to have reached a more senior position than them. They must though have credible and transferable knowledge and experiences and it is how the whole package is deployed in support of your business and personal goals that is important to listen out for.
3. Do you have or work from a proven system?
This is a key question but again should not be employed too rigidly. There are a number of approaches to coaching, each with a formula, process or methodology. Each has its strengths. What is important is to look for a clear methodology that is applied consistently but which has sufficient flexibility to take the client wherever they need to go. There are plenty of coaches who stick rigidly to their process and will not deviate. This is unnecessary and leads not only to poor results but an increased chance that the coachee will lose momentum.
Should you hear from a coach a completely opposite view, and that they take a freeform approach and will just take each session from a standing start and look at the issues which the coachee brings in that day, alarm bells should ring. This approach might be useful for day-to-day tactical thinking through of topical issues; however it will never address the bigger challenges that will move the coachee’s performance to the next level. That is usually what a leadership coach is employed for and should be looking to deliver. Furthermore, unstructured coaching can consume a lot of time and this, to a busy executive, can make coaching difficult to schedule. An hour or 75 minutes is more than long enough for a full session to make significant progress. So look for a proven methodology that can be applied flexibly and in a time-efficient manner.